Thursday, August 6, 2009

Dear Het Men,

You are not entitled to my body.
You do not deserve access into my pants.
I am not an object for you to receive or use as status.
If you find me attractive, I do not owe you a date.
If you find me unattractive, I do not owe you my invisibility.
I do not owe you anything, regardless of your feelings about me.

I am not a bitch for not being interested in you.
I am not a slut for dating someone other than you.
I am not your servant, trohpy, or mother if I do date you.

I am not to blame for your issues with women.
Women are not to blame for your issues with women.
We are not responsible for your inability to cope with rejection.
Stop blaming us.
It is not our fault.
We do not force you to do anything, just like you cannot force us.

Hopefully you've heard this all before.
But maybe no one's ever told you. Or you just never listened.
Whichever, hear what I am saying now.
Listen to these words.
Remember them. Memorize them.
Tattoo them on your goddamn forehead.
YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO MY BODY.

Sincerly,
A person of the female variety


Update: See here.

16 comments:

  1. excellent post--glad you said it (though i wish it didn't have to be said at all).

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  2. Yawn.

    Another self-absorbed, overly entitled female who thinks so highly of herself that she believes all "het men" want to fuck her.

    Yawn.

    (We don't, btw. Get over yourself.)

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  3. woot! my first troll! By golly, my life is now complete.

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  4. I fail to see how it's trolling.

    You're acting self-absorbed, (as many women do, especially feminists) and assuming that you're some high and mighty bit of royalty, and that all men desperately want to fuck you because you have a vagina.

    I'm simply pointing out that this is not the case.

    I am not to blame for your issues with women.
    Women are not to blame for your issues with women.


    As for that, I suppose I should address that YOUR issues with MEN are not the fault of men, they are, in fact, your fault.

    Works both ways, huh? Fun stuff.

    Still, you really DO need to get over yourself. We don't want to fuck you. We don't care about your body. You can have it, we aren't interested.

    It's ridiculous and insulting for you to assume we do, and all it does is further negative stereotypes of men as uncontrollable sex-starved beasts that want to fuck every woman in sight.

    Would you enjoy a post about telling women they aren't entitled to men's wallets and money?

    Same concept, you see.

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  5. It's self absorbed to acknowledge that my body is my own and no one elses? OK I can live with that.

    I know not every guy wants to sleep with me. I never said they did. I said that men are not entitled to a woman's body, which is true. You saying women aren't entitled to men's money? Also true. But last I checked, there haven't been a spat of women recently who've killed random (or not random) men because they didn't buy the woman what she thought she deserved. You can't say the same thing about men killing women because they weren't sleeping with him.

    Just out of curiosity (I am genuinely curious) where did you stumble upon this blog post from?

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  6. It's self absorbed to acknowledge that my body is my own and no one elses? OK I can live with that.

    No. It's self-absorbed, however, to do so in a manner that assumes other people (all heterosexual men, apparently) want to fuck said body.

    I know not every guy wants to sleep with me. I never said they did.

    Sounds like it. "Dear Het Men". Not "Dear Het Men that have hit on me", or "Dear Certain Het Men", or "Dear minority of Het men", etcetera.

    But last I checked, there haven't been a spat of women recently who've killed random (or not random) men because they didn't buy the woman what she thought she deserved.

    No, women just kill men out of irrational jealousy that goes unreported and shoved under the rug by feminists, much like the recent football player who was brutally murdered in cold blood, in his sleep, by an angry jealous woman.

    Where's feminism's response to that? I thought women were never violent, only men?

    You can't say the same thing about men killing women because they weren't sleeping with him.

    One man does not a trend make.

    Just out of curiosity (I am genuinely curious) where did you stumble upon this blog post from?

    Internets.

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  7. It's kind of amazing how defensive you're getting over the simple truth that you don't have ownership of anyone's body but your own.

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  8. (We don't, btw. Get over yourself.)

    LISTEN TO HIM. Clearly he speaks for all the het men in the world!

    No, women just kill men out of irrational jealousy that goes unreported and shoved under the rug by feminists, much like the recent football player who was brutally murdered in cold blood, in his sleep, by an angry jealous woman.

    Where's feminism's response to that? I thought women were never violent, only men?


    You mean Steve McNair? Who was murdered over a month ago, but whose name I can recall with no googling?

    Did the woman who murdered him have an internet diary in which she planned his murder?

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  9. couldn't resist taking a gander at your troll. funny stuff there...

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  10. It's kind of amazing how defensive you're getting over the simple truth that you don't have ownership of anyone's body but your own.

    It's kind of amazing how offensive you're getting over thinking everyone wants yours.

    LISTEN TO HIM. Clearly he speaks for all the het men in the world!

    Why not? She clearly reads the minds of all het men in the world, by assuming we do!


    Did the woman who murdered him have an internet diary in which she planned his murder?


    Who knows? MSM, feminists, etcetera, all tend to very quietly pretend women aren't capable of murder.

    Hurts that whole "Men are violent, the world would be much better with women in charge" bullshit rhetoric your type tends to spew.

    couldn't resist taking a gander at your troll. funny stuff there...

    Yeah, god forbid someone disagree with A FEMINIST! They're always right! Disagreeing with one, or proving one wrong makes you a woman-hating troll!

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  11. I've never known anyone to pretend that women aren't capable of murder. Especially not the media. Murder sells.

    http://current.com/items/89921166_sarah-haskins-in-target-women-snapped.htm

    Also "your type tends to spew"?

    Critizing her for something she hasn't said hardly seems like an honest debate tactic.

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  12. Awesome post.

    Boring troll.

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  13. Well done. We've all dealt with a troll or two in our time, and you have done very well here. Not to mention your post is awesome. I'm glad my friend tweeted a link and I found this post! Very empowering.

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